Mimi's Dilemma

Mimi Sets The Record Straight With Bossip On Steve J’s Other Kids

Now lets be honest with ourselves Oleurimi "Mimi" Faust. I know you said Stevie J had all his other kids before you 2 started dating, BUT what about the "what if" baby with Joseline? That little excuse of "Stevie J having kids before you" is now BS.

Don't you think??? It still doesn't explain why he still got another woman (an ex-stripper at that) pregnant while he was with you.

 Come on!!You just played yourself with that one. Take a moment to set aside your ego and pride. Just admit you fell for the ok-ey-doke like every other person who is a fool in love.

They didn't make the movie "Why Do Fools Fall in Love" for no reason (great movie too, check it out! I must have watched it a hundred times. anyways....)

Whether you've known him for 15 years or dated him for 15 years, a blind man could see how much of a player Stevie is.

 So can we really hate the player, and not just the game he ran on you??

At any rate, Mimi can't play the "victim card" seeing that you KNOWN this guy for that long. Can viewers really be sympathetic towards her and the situation she knowingly chose to get involved in??

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Mama's Boys- Hard To Deal With

While some guys are worth your time and energy–worth your efforts of taming and gaming–others should simply be left where they are and moved away from quickly.
Momma’s Boys are one of the cats I’d recommend you NOT pursue.

Peep Game: The problem with Momma’s Boys is NOT their love for their mothers.  Really it isn’t.  THAT is a quality you should look for in any man.  The two issues I find deal breakers in dealing with men who are Momma’s Boys are,

1.  His inability to disconnect mentally and emotionally from his momma.

2.  His momma’s inability to disconnect mentally and emotionally from her son.

You see, when a woman enters this mess of dysfunction, she becomes a third wheel.  And, you all know what they say about third wheels–Two is company, three is a crowd!”

I’m not going to get into a lot of psychology because I am not a psychologist, but watch Dr. Phil  for a while and you’ll see example after example of Momma’s Boys, moms, and wives at war.
What I want you to know about this kind of dude and what rapping yourself up with him will mean, IS G.A.M.E–pure and simple.

You see, in order to absorb a man’s mind with your Script…in order to seep into his brain cells and drench his heart with your Macking…you need the guy available to and open toyour G.A.M.E.

Momma’s Boys are too caught up in what their momma is saying about everything to be effectively seduced.  Sure,  you can get into the Momma’s Boy’s head, BUT CAN YOU STAY THERE is the question?

Momma’s Boys seek their mother’s advice about everything.  And momma, in the case of Momma’s Boys, seeks to expose you (and your “ways”) to her son.  She’ll comment on almost everything you say and do–telling her son why you shouldn’t be doing this or saying that!  She’ll put her son up on the Game you try to run–neutralizing its power and effectiveness.  Then her son (instead of keeping all that to himself like most men would) will bring EVERYTHING HIS MOMMA SAID back to you.

And, Momma’s Boys allow their mothers to cross boundaries mommas shouldn’t cross.  They may allow her to curse you out or to criticize you harshly.  Instead of asking mom to respect his wife, the Momma’s Boy shrugs his shoulders and says, “Well that’s momma.  What can I say?”  Seeing that her son is cool with her behavior, momma will kick her criticism and disrespect, boundary-crossing, and meddling into high gear.


Lastly, Momma’s Boys are never really afraid of returning home to momma.  In fact, that’s where you’ll find most of them in between relationships.  The Momma’s Boy has the attitude of, “Oh well.  If ‘we’ don’t work out, I’ll go back and live with mom.”

You can’t effectively G.A.M.E a guy like that!  You may have him going for a while.  But eventually, momma gets her paws on him and in no time, he’s thinking like and talking just like his momma. 

PIMPTASTIC TIP:  Mommas of Momma’s Boys seem to like one type of chick.  If you aren’t her–submissive, quiet, go along-to-get along, nonchalant–you NEED NOT APPLY for a relationship with her son. 

A good example of a Momma’s Boy is Lil Scrappy.  Watch him and his mom on “Love And Hip Hop Atlanta” if you want to see a Momma’s Boy in action.  Observe how he consults Momma Dee on everything and how Momma Dee guides his actions like she’s steering a ship.
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Never A Wife

I came across a very interesting article title "3 Signs You'll Always Be A Baby's Momma And Never A Wife."

1. Stripped

Many men love the allure of naked women booty clapping for dollar bills with no strings attached. Strip clubs are an escape for most men–a fantasy if you will. Strip clubs should not be date night options. If your baby’s father respects you as the mother of his children, he’d never bring you to as strip club to watch him waste his hard-earned money, which could be going to towards the kids.

Well I do agree somewhat to this point. Although times are changing and more couples frequent the clubs together, but I never really got this type of offer before. It could go either way I guess.  To each their own.

2. In Your Face

If the father of your children gallivants around town with his so called protege that he has no qualms with expressing his affections towards her, then chances are you’re pretty much set in baby momma concrete.

Well if any guy goes parading around town with different women, then doesn't it make him a player in general? If you do not mind fighting w/ other females for the title of being his so called "main", then don't let me mess things up. Go right ahead.

3. (More Than) One Woman Man

Lil’ Wayne’s redefined the term “baby momma.” He seems to be collecting them like baseball cards. When you look around and you’re among a group of women who share one baby’s father, you just might find yourself living out a stereotype.

Isn't this basically the same meaning as number 2? But point taken...

Do you guys agree with the 3 points above? And whats your opinion on them.

Blog Credit and read more :http://hellobeautiful.com/2505058/3-signs-youll-always-be-a-babys-momma-and-never-a-wife/