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Sunday, June 9, 2013
In: dating , love , mama boys , mothers , over-bearing

Mama's Boys- Hard To Deal With


While some guys are worth your time and energy–worth your efforts of taming and gaming–others should simply be left where they are and moved away from quickly.
Momma’s Boys are one of the cats I’d recommend you NOT pursue.

Peep Game: The problem with Momma’s Boys is NOT their love for their mothers.  Really it isn’t.  THAT is a quality you should look for in any man.  The two issues I find deal breakers in dealing with men who are Momma’s Boys are,
1.  His inability to disconnect mentally and emotionally from his momma.
2.  His momma’s inability to disconnect mentally and emotionally from her son.
You see, when a woman enters this mess of dysfunction, she becomes a third wheel.  And, you all know what they say about third wheels–Two is company, three is a crowd!”

I’m not going to get into a lot of psychology because I am not a psychologist, but watch Dr. Phil  for a while and you’ll see example after example of Momma’s Boys, moms, and wives at war.
What I want you to know about this kind of dude and what rapping yourself up with him will mean, IS G.A.M.E–pure and simple.

You see, in order to absorb a man’s mind with your Script…in order to seep into his brain cells and drench his heart with your Macking…you need the guy available to and open toyour G.A.M.E.
Momma’s Boys are too caught up in what their momma is saying about everything to be effectively seduced.  Sure,  you can get into the Momma’s Boy’s head, BUT CAN YOU STAY THERE is the question?

Momma’s Boys seek their mother’s advice about everything.  And momma, in the case of Momma’s Boys, seeks to expose you (and your “ways”) to her son.  She’ll comment on almost everything you say and do–telling her son why you shouldn’t be doing this or saying that!  She’ll put her son up on the Game you try to run–neutralizing its power and effectiveness.  Then her son (instead of keeping all that to himself like most men would) will bring EVERYTHING HIS MOMMA SAID back to you.

And, Momma’s Boys allow their mothers to cross boundaries mommas shouldn’t cross.  They may allow her to curse you out or to criticize you harshly.  Instead of asking mom to respect his wife, the Momma’s Boy shrugs his shoulders and says, “Well that’s momma.  What can I say?”  Seeing that her son is cool with her behavior, momma will kick her criticism and disrespect, boundary-crossing, and meddling into high gear.


Lastly, Momma’s Boys are never really afraid of returning home to momma.  In fact, that’s where you’ll find most of them in between relationships.  The Momma’s Boy has the attitude of, “Oh well.  If ‘we’ don’t work out, I’ll go back and live with mom.”

You can’t effectively G.A.M.E a guy like that!  You may have him going for a while.  But eventually, momma gets her paws on him and in no time, he’s thinking like and talking just like his momma. 
PIMPTASTIC TIP:  Mommas of Momma’s Boys seem to like one type of chick.  If you aren’t her–submissive, quiet, go along-to-get along, nonchalant–you NEED NOT APPLY for a relationship with her son. 

A good example of a Momma’s Boy is Lil Scrappy.  Watch him and his mom on “Love And Hip Hop Atlanta” if you want to see a Momma’s Boy in action.  Observe how he consults Momma Dee on everything and how Momma Dee guides his actions like she’s steering a ship.
Read The rest of this article at http://peepgame.net
Posted by My Love Diary at 7:31 AM
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