Men Stop Holding Your Hand Out

I never understood why some men actually asked women for a (quote on quote) "LOAN" ( lol had to throw the emphasis on that). Where is your dignity? The confidence? The masculinity???

It all DISAPPEARED the very first time you ask a woman you barely knew for money.

I heard plenty, many, asked is I can loan them a little something something. lol Then in the same breath wonder and ask why I don't respect him.

LOL !!! Are you seriously asking me that dumb question?!?!

 So not only does this guy lack dignity and self-respect to make him-self look feminize (well I really want to say B-made) but now you look as if you lack common sense in my eyes also.

Getting back to the topic..

How in the world has things change so much in society? What happen to the times men treated women with respect? Or at the very least carry his-self with honor and respect?!

Especially when it comes to his very own expenses. The nerve to expect a woman you barely know to handle your business as if you're only a little boy and not a man. But at the same time they want women to treat them like men and not talk down to them.

 If I were a man I would feel very embarrassed, that I couldn't handle the responsibilities that I've occurred on my own account. This innocent woman wasn't even around to help get you in debt.

And well since there's no shame in their game, then he wouldn't mind being outted to everyone and anyone who knows this man. He wouldn't have a problem with people recognizing him for being a broke-down-no-dignity-having-can't-do-nothing-for-you-SCRUB. 

He should ware that Badge of Honor just as proudly as he honorably asked a woman (he barely knows) for money.

And you know there's nothing more unattractive to women than men not handling their responsibilities and own expenses. And for you guys thinking this is "gold-digging" thinking.

Umm i'll quote you w/ this .. from Kanye West "Now I ain't saying she a gold digger, But she ain't messing with no broke,N"eed I say more...