Secrets- We All Have Them

There is a saying "whats done in the dark, will eventually come to light". I really cant stand that saying. Not all secrets are revealed. Some secrets are better left that way! Everyone will have that one secret that they will take to their grave. And it just so happens to be the darkest one of all.

  So I think I just prove that saying wrong. And for all of those who still wish to live in denial and believe that saying to be true, well good luck. To each its own. I guess. 

  But why would a person share everything about themselves. What gives you the right to want to know everything about a person?!?! Especially when you yourself do not feel comfortable giving away all your secrets. What happen to privacy of others and respecting it as such?? Everyone has dirt, there is not one person who is perfect.

So my question is " Who gets to determine whats done in the dark, will eventually come to light". No One! 

And we really shouldn't worry about someone's dark past or secrets , the only exception I have to this is , of course if it effects you personally and directly. Other than that, we would be better off to mind our own business. But thats only in a perfect world, filled with perfect people right lol.

  I still rather go with the saying " what you don't know, wont hurt you!!"

Even though I'm not good at keeping secrets, well secrets of other people. I wont share mine so willingly. Its more of a reason for people to mind their own business. My opinion anyway.

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   So what do you think? Do you think people should be more open with their secrets? Or should people just learn how to mind their own business?