Lets Talk About Love

I was wondering can one be "in love "with more than one person at the same time? Looking back on it, I really dont think you can. In my opinion you can love more than one person at the same time, but not in love with more than one person.
I personally think its a different kind of feeling of "loving" and being "in love".


I have in the past, liked and had feelings for different guys at the same time. Confuse it with being in love (we were all young once).


But now I realized I wasn't really in love with them because I didnt fully accept them and lost interest just as quickly. But I'm also an Aries too( yea I know, yikes!!lol)

But then its like who can really say that one cant be in love with more than one person? Maybe you have, or even me. Love is so confusing (shaking my head)

You have the:

• "ideal love",
• "practical love",
• "brotherly love",
• "friendship love",
• "perfect love", 
• "passionate love", 
• "mellow love"

And I can go on and on with the different types of love. You wonder how one even came of with the definition of what love is, and how to describe it.

But because in reality people do develop feelings for more than one person, how do you condition yourself to follow society's rules regarding mono relationships?


Should people be more accepting of open relationship, or should you just learn to discipline yourself?
(I'm not saying cheating is ok because its a form of deception. And any kind of deception is wrong.)
Im talking about honesty and having open relationships where both parties know where they stand and who they're with.

But like the saying goes, you cant help who you fall for.