Mimi's Dilemma

Mimi Sets The Record Straight With Bossip On Steve J’s Other Kids

Now lets be honest with ourselves Oleurimi "Mimi" Faust. I know you said Stevie J had all his other kids before you 2 started dating, BUT what about the "what if" baby with Joseline? That little excuse of "Stevie J having kids before you" is now BS.

Don't you think??? It still doesn't explain why he still got another woman (an ex-stripper at that) pregnant while he was with you.

 Come on!!You just played yourself with that one. Take a moment to set aside your ego and pride. Just admit you fell for the ok-ey-doke like every other person who is a fool in love.

They didn't make the movie "Why Do Fools Fall in Love" for no reason (great movie too, check it out! I must have watched it a hundred times. anyways....)

Whether you've known him for 15 years or dated him for 15 years, a blind man could see how much of a player Stevie is.

 So can we really hate the player, and not just the game he ran on you??

At any rate, Mimi can't play the "victim card" seeing that you KNOWN this guy for that long. Can viewers really be sympathetic towards her and the situation she knowingly chose to get involved in??

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Scorn Before Dating

If you looked at my title and thought to yourself, "how can one be scorned before dating? Before her first relationship? Before she even has the chance to fall in love with a man who will marry her one day? Is it possible?"

Yes it's possible. I once thought like you. I didn't realize until this year how bitter i was, and somewhat am now. 

They say time heals all wounds. But I say thats Bull. 

Over time some wounds fester into big infection and others even fatal. 

So you see, time can only do so much. But how you use your time can determine whether you'll be healed or unfortunately get a fatal infection.


Back to the topic..

How can one be scorn before dating?

 Well I for one have serious daddy issues. Issues with abandonment. And I never took the time to let my issues heal. Over time I found myself bitter towards men, taking out my anger towards my father out on them.

 Thinking to myself, if my own flesh and blood broke my heart, whos to stop the next man from breaking my heart also.

So you see, until now, I've discovered you can be scorned before you have your first relationship, fall in love with a man, or even something as little as a friendship.

Every woman who has been left or betrayed by their father at an early age can relate to the same heartbreak as I. We all know that hurt will never go away. But how we choose to go about that pain is our own decisions.

Is it truly fair for hurting a man the same way my father hurt me? 

I admit, I did destroy a few potential good relationships with men who sincerely fell for me out of fear of a broken heart. Not realizing I was the true heartbreaker. 

And I know one day Karma will be back to collect as it will w/ my father.